End-of-Life & Long-term Illness Doula Services
“Your joy is your sorrow unmasked.
And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises was oftentimes filled with your tears.
And how else can it be?
The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.”
- Khalil Gibran
Uncover to your yet-spoken desires.
Find the brightness.
Finish soft & clear.
For individuals, families, and loved ones.
Hello braveheart,
Take this moment for one deep breath...
And again...
Let yourself know you’re here, and there’s nowhere else you need to be.
Relationships are complex. And they are all the more complex when you or someone you love is in a long-term illness or the dying process. As a certified death doula, I provide long-term illness, life and end-of-life support to individuals, partners, and families through traditional death doula frameworks.
Bespoke services available.
Doula services are available whether or not you are a current client of Breath & Temple. Please reach out with any questions, wishes, or challenges to see how I can support you.
rheanna@breathandtemple.com
In the uncontrollable, you get to choose.
Skills and services
Death-curious conversations
Education about planning for end of life
Physiological death education
Supporting cultural, religious, and spiritual practices, as you wish
End-of-life projects
Community resourcing
Respite care
Understanding changing relationship and family dynamics
Estate and home organization, down-sizing or de-cluttering
Follow-up family support
Frequently Asked Questions
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End-of-Life Doulas are nonmedical companions who provide personalized and compassionate support to individuals, families, and their circles of care as they encounter and navigate death, loss, and mortality. We advocate self-determination and provides psychosocial, emotional, spiritual, and practical care to empower dignity throughout the dying process.
Doulas have received specialized training in navigating the unique issues that come up at the end of life or for those living with long-term and/or complex medical challenges.
Doulas are a complement to your medical team, and do not offer or provide medical advice or medical care. Doulas can assist with: end-of-life planning (advanced directives, medical power of attorney, end of life wishes), vigil planning (how do you want your last hours to look and feel?), legacy projects, life review processing, education and preparation for the dying process, after body care, support for loved ones, grief work, rituals, and peaceful presence, advocacy and coordination during the vigil.
Learn more at https://inelda.org/about-doulas/what-is-a-doula
Hiring a doula is an investment in your well-being or the well-being of your loved ones. There can be light in the darkness, softness in the most harsh night; I would love to come alongside you so that you do not have to do this alone.
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Hospice care is a phenomenal service available that involves a collaborative care team consisting of doctors, nurses, nursing assistants, social workers, chaplains, and volunteers. In the United States, the parameters of hospice care are primarily shaped by the practices of the Medicare system and other health insurance providers, offering coverage for patients with terminal illnesses expected to live six months or less.
An end-of-life doula does not replace hospice care but serves as a complementary support. Doulas often engage with clients well before they may qualify for hospice admission. Doulas are also often brought in at the same time hospice begins, coming alongside as part of the crucial team of care supporting an individual and their family.
Many individuals hire doulas to address gaps in hospice services, as doulas specialize in providing non-medical support, and offer many services that hospices can not. Unlike hospice, we do not accept Medicare or other insurance, freeing us from strict timelines and limitations on visit frequency and duration. Many people who currently work for hospice, that came into the field because they deeply care for people, are frustrated because they can not spend the kind of time with patients that they would like to, due to restraints from Medicare billing. The flexibility doulas have allow us to offer personalized and extended support to individuals navigating the complexities of their end-of-life journey.
Clients and families who have worked with doulas have expressed how vital the companionship, support and guidance a doula brought was towards creating the “good death” they or their loved one desired.
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Navigating the challenging decisions that arise at the end of life is a universal experience. For many, becoming informed about available options and resources provides a valuable sense of control, during a time when so much is out of one’s control. Open and honest discussions play a pivotal role in ensuring informed decision-making. Laura can help facilitate these crucial conversations, fostering dialogue between you, your loved ones, and healthcare providers, to ensure your wishes are clearly understood and respected.
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I acknowledge and respect all cultural beliefs and religious and spiritual affiliations. It is an important, vital piece of you. My doula work is tailored specifically to you and your needs, to who you are. All of you is welcome and celebrated and honored.
Many of my clients do not identify as a member of a specific religion, nor even adhere to a spiritual practice. As they approach the end of life, most people discover they have spiritual needs to attend to. All lives have meaning, and it is an honor to support my clients as they uncover that meaning and examine their legacy.
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Doulas provide non-medical emotional and spiritual support to our clients, but we do not impose our own religious views and spiritual practices on our clients. We meet our clients where they are, listening for their needs. We work with you to create your own meaning.
If requested, I will lead ceremonies of your choosing to mark important moments, or help you choose a ritual that is meaningful to you. Some clients will decide to turn to their own faith leaders and community to meet their spiritual needs, reserving a doula’s help for non-spiritual tasks.
Will there be prayer? Meditation? Poetry? Crystals? Reverence? Irreverence? That’s up to you! It’s your journey, not mine.
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I offer a free 30-minute consultation for prospective clients. If we then agree we’re a good match, you can pay at the hourly rate, or go with a package based on your wants and needs. Doulas do not accept any insurance, Medicaid or Medicare.
Interested in learning more? Schedule a consultation now through breathandtemple@gmail.com.
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I serve in-person the greater Boulder and Front Range area, including the towns of Boulder, Louisville, Lafayette, Longmont, Superior, Broomfield, Erie, Lyons, Frederick, Niwot, Gunbarrel, and Firestone.
Many services (such as advance care planning, life review and emotional support) can be offered virtually, and I also provide this.
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I am an RN, with a background in hospice, emergency medicine, and long-term in-home care. I completed training through the International End of Life Doula Association (INELDA), which is recognized by the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization (NHPCO).
I have received hands-on care training and experience through volunteering with TRU Community Care, one of the oldest hospices in the country.
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Of course! Death is an inevitability for all of us and my work as a death doula is all about helping people live their best lives. In many ways, a death doula can double as a life guide, supporting others when it comes to getting clear on what matters most in their life and letting go of what no longer serves them. Estate planning and even obituary services can benefit everyone.